Misconceptions About God – God Won’t Let You Go Through More Than You Can Handle

Pic 12One of the first things we learn in God’s School of Ministry is that there are some incorrect suppositions about how God deals with Man. These misconceptions are widely taught as gospel truth in our seminaries and church pulpits. The first misconception that a believer realizes is the falsehood that God will not allow us to go through more than we can handle. Those who continue to espouse such a belief either don’t understand the Scriptures or have never been to Roadkill Seminary.

We often tell young Christians that God won’t put them through more than they can handle to comfort them. In general, from a theological perspective it is appropriate for new believers to understand God will not allow them to be destroyed or vanquished into oblivion by trying times in their life. However it can be terrifying when we are faced with a situation that is presently overwhelming our ability to cope. We can become greatly confused and disoriented because we have been incorrectly taught that these trials and tribulations were never supposed to get this difficult. Besides what makes this belief irrelevant in the first place is that our idea and God’s idea of what is too difficult for us to handle is not the same.

This failure to cope during a trial may cause us to think we are really messed up because we are presently experiencing more than we can handle; yet in our mind we remember being taught this should never happen to a Christian. We falsely think God should’ve come to our rescue by now. “Why don’t the Scriptures work for me?” we think to our self. I believe this misconception adds to the drop-out rate (and sadly, sometimes suicide) for Christians all over the world.

Believers who are experiencing tests and trials that are beyond their ability end up thinking God has abandoned them or they just don’t have what it takes, so they often give up on their walk. The source of this misconception is rooted in a misunderstanding of 1 Corinthians 10:13:

No temptation has overtaken you except such is common to man; but God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will also make a way of escape that you may be able to bear it.

What the Bible says here is that no “temptation” will entice us so forcibly, so powerfully that we will have to succumb to it. No one will be able to stand before God on Judgment Day and say to God “I’m sorry Lord, I just had no choice but to sin, he or she was just too beautiful to turn down.” Joseph escaped the temptation of Potipher’s wife by running. God made a way of escape. However trials are different. Joseph couldn’t escape the pit or the prison. There are no escapes from these kinds of trials. Just ask Daniel about the lion’s den and the three Hebrew children who were thrown in the fiery furnace, or the countless martyrs throughout history who didn’t have a way of escape. The Scripture here in First Corinthians is referring to no “temptation” will overwhelm us. It is not referring to a trial or the testing of our faith.

Paul himself said he was burdened by circumstances so great they were beyond measure and above his strength to bear. Contemporary preachers may try to sanitize RKS from the Bible but the apostle’s words are still in black and white in 2 Corinthians 1:8:

For we do not want you to be ignorant, brethren, of our trouble which came to us in Asia: that we were burdened beyond measure, above strength, so that we  despaired even of life.

For the Christian who is being prepared for a higher calling, it appears God will allow, and even specifically design, circumstances and trials to break them, to take them beyond their present ability to cope. It’s only when the Lord takes us beyond our breaking point and blows our “circuit breakers” that we truly discover where our life ends and His Spirit begins. This is the beginning of the Spirit-dependent life.

We acknowledge in the eternal sense that our God wouldn’t allow a trial to destroy us. In truth these trials are about us dying to the strength of flesh and discovering His enabling grace. However, there are times when the Lord out necessity allows us to be overwhelmed beyond our ability to bear, so we will discover the reality of His resurrection power. Are you still unconvinced that God would have you go through something you cannot bear? Look at how Jesus Himself fell under the weight of the Roman cross on the way to Golgotha (Matthew 27:32). It was more than Jesus could handle. The Roman soldiers had to get another man to help Him carry it to the finish line. God will also have particular people positioned in our life to help us continue towards our appointment with death/trial … then resurrection.

As we become obedient unto death as Jesus did, the Bible becomes more than a religious book; it becomes the Living Word of Life. Those who don’t hunger for the higher calling and purposes of God or those who have shrunk back from God’s dealings may find this difficult to accept. Understandably there is a naïve sense of security in believing we’ll never have to face more than we can handle. As we stated earlier, many are called but few choose the path of the chosen. Maybe we’ll never be given the opportunity to be tested like we are discussing here. Yes I said opportunity. It is a privilege to suffer for Christ. It is only the grace of God that has allowed anyone to suffer faithfully for the Lord.

So they departed from the presence of the council, rejoicing that they were counted worthy to suffer shame for His name. Acts 5:41

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4 comments

  1. I agree with your understanding of how God draws us into a place of growth from either temptation or the scary weight of the battle. Would you also go as far as to say God’s desire is not for us to run or to hide from the temptation or the overwhelming battle. But to press into Him and find what He has said about us to be true. That being, we are able to stand up to the temptation or the heat of the battle. Standing not in our weakness but in His strength. 1 Cor. 10:13 stating that the door of escape is not God’s best but a place for retreat if we will not press into him for whatever failure on our part?

  2. Harry, Great questions. In one place Scripture actually tells us to run, not fight, and that is from the temptation of youthful lust. That is why the Lord always provides a way to escape to avoid sinning. The trials however, like the wilderness, seems to be designed by the Lord to reveal our dependence on the Lord that we wouldn’t understand or appreciate without the test.

  3. I agree with some of this and I see where you’re coming from, but I can’t say that I completely agree. Although I respect your opinion one hundred percent, I must say that my personal beliefs are that even though life really is too much for humans to handle, God will help support us and keep us upright even in the most troubling of times. One of my favorite Christian sayings is “If it’s too much to stand, kneel.” This does not tell us that we will never be overwhelmed. In fact, it insinuates quite the opposite: we all WILL have times when everything seems too much, and it is in those moments that we must turn to The Lord for support. So, do I agree with what you are saying? Yes and no. I agree that there is too much in life for us to handle. But I don’t believe that God will simply drop heavy burdens on our shoulders without helping bear a considerable amount of the weight.

  4. Elena, I think you are right on the mark. The Lord is always there to empower us when we ask. The point of the article is to help Christians who are backsliding or attempting suicide because they are being overwhelmed understand that being overwhelmed beyond our ability is part of God’s curriculum.

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